How I Learned to Disagree Politely in a Review

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Last week, I had a review with my manager.

Minggu lalu, saya ada review dengan atasan saya.

She thought I missed a deadline.

Dia pikir saya melewatkan tenggat waktu.

But the date was moved, not missed.

Tapi tanggalnya diubah, bukan dilewatkan.

I said, "I see it a little differently."

Saya bilang, "Saya melihatnya sedikit berbeda."

Then I showed her the email about the change.

Lalu saya tunjukkan email tentang perubahan itu.

She said, "Fair point, but check with me next time."

Dia bilang, "Poin bagus, tapi lain kali konfirmasi ke saya."

I responded, "Have we considered a shared calendar?"

Saya jawab, "Bagaimana kalau kita pakai kalender bersama?"

She liked that idea.

Dia suka ide itu.

I learned to push back without sounding defensive.

Saya belajar untuk menyanggah tanpa terdengar defensif.

Using phrases like "I see it a little differently" helps.

Pakai frasa seperti "Saya melihatnya sedikit berbeda" membantu.

It keeps the conversation open.

Itu menjaga percakapan tetap terbuka.

Now I am more confident in reviews.

Sekarang saya lebih percaya diri saat review.

How I Learned to Disagree Politely in a Review

by @anggunlingo